Constantly, when you grow up, you start thinking; now I’m becoming an adult? When I do permitted to myself change from a kid into an adult? Or in the worst case, how I turned from a cute kid to a bored adult?
Well, it can’t be that bad or in that way, but the question still there. From a biological stand point and adult is when you are able to procreate, from a legal stand point you become an adult when you turn 18 and in some countries 21 years old, from the society point of view you’re and adult when you have “maturity” and if we’re honest that simple word can generate another essay to explain it. However, all this info leaves us with more doubts than at the beginning.
What I can say and from my experience is that you don’t become an adult just because you are 18 year or 30, 40 even 50 or more, neither if you have one child or a dozen or if you have a big close beard or has stop playing with toys, even if years ago you don’t believe anymore in Santa Claus of in the Tooth Fairy.
You know you’re an adult when you realize that life is not a fairytale but you can still have a happy ending, when you realize that the love doesn’t turn the earthly world where we live into a sweet pink world but you are able to paint a big pink heart in the chest of your partner every morning, when you still having fun with simple things as how you did when you were a little kid no matter how rich or poor you are. But the most important thing, and be careful reading this, is that you become and adult when you realize that every single dream from your childhood can be materialize it completely by having just a little work on them.